Virtues – Becoming the Best You Can Be

This is the second book by Stephen Gabriel that I have read in the last year, the first To Be a Father: 200 Promises That Will Transform You, Your Marriage, and Your Family was so good that even though I do not read many physical books I picked up this one to read it. Both have been incredible and both focus on virtues. This book can be a quick read but to truly implement if’s wisdom it will either be read slowly or read many times over. It is written in a very engaging manner and is easy to read and engage. It is down to earth advice from a father and now a grandfather on how to grow in the virtues to be a better husband and father.

There are 20 concise chapters in this book each focusing on a separate virtue. Each chapter begins with a biblical quote, then a quote drawn from a historical source. Then it is followed by a full page description of that specific virtue. Then finally we are presented between 1 and 3 pages of short reflections on that specific virtue.

The 20 virtues are:


This book can be read through from beginning to it. In can be randomly flipped open for inspiration or motivation. Or we can pick a specific virtue and work on it until we are ready to move on to the next. This second edition of this book was reworked 12 years after the

first edition, during that time Stephen when from being a father to a grandfather. His advice is just as relevant to his new role and his provides a godly example of a man who is striving every day to be better than the day before.

How to Read the Virtues

His advice to us in the preface to this new edition is: “Speaking to the Heart is meant to be reflected upon. Where’s your struggle these days? Humility? Patience? Temperance? Chastity? Read the chapter on that virtue again and reflect and pray about what you’ve read. We all have to make an effort to acquire these virtues, And sometimes they don’t come easily. But, what a worthy battle! The effort alone will make us better husbands, better fathers and indeed betters friends of Christ.” And honestly that is one of the greatest things we can spend our time and effort on for through the growth in virtues we will become who God is really calling us to be.

My only regret is that this book is not available in eBook format for I know a lot of fathers who would read it electronically. But that aside it is an amazing read and will be an excellent tool in the spiritual tool box of any father, any husband and man!

A Father and Son at Play

A Father and Son at Play

Books by Stephen Gabriel:

A Father’s Covenant: 173 Promises for Consideration and Reflection
Speaking to the Heart: A Father’s Guide to Growth in Virtue
To Be a Father: 200 Promises That Will Transform You, Your Marriage, and Your Family
Catholic Controversies: Understanding Church Teachings and Events in History

The Book Specifics

Speaking to the Heart
A Father’s Guide to Growth in Virtue
Stephen Gabriel
Moorings Press
ISBN 9780982766224

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Speaking to the Heart A Father's Guide to growth in Virtues

Speaking to the Heart